4 Relationship Killers That You Want to Avoid When in Conflict

Its normal to have the people close to you push your buttons! On this week’s episode of the podcast, I share the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in your relationship when you are having conflict with your partner.

They are defensiveness, stonewalling, criticism, and contempt. If you’ve ever been in a long term relationship, you know you will come across some kind of conflict with your partner.

I know that I have experienced all four of these major relationship killers before and in many different ways. I’ve gotten defensive when I felt as if someone was criticizing me, using a number of “you always do this” statements. I know that I have stonewalled my partners in the past when they have become defensive with me. What I do believe is that anyone can change if they want it badly enough. I personally have seen so much change in myself since I hit rock bottom and decided to make a number of changes in my life, starting with reaching out to a counselor for support.

Conflict can also help you grow closer to your partner because it opens up an opportunity to repair any wrongdoing. I want to walk you through a couple of personal experiences of my own from the past couple years looking for a partner while dating in the modern world.

While doing so, I hope to show you the warning signs of bad conflict behaviors and share the antidotes to them at the same time!

If you’re looking for support while in conflict in your relationship, please join us in our small group coaching program free for one week, where you will get the answers you need to create your ideal relationship now!

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